In reply to Treesandrocks:
Eden Valley Mountaineering Club are based in Penrith, we are meeting Weds nights at the leisure centre wall at the minute, but that switches to local crag meets in the summer. Also two monthly weekend meets for climbing and scrambling, then a handful of full weekends away e.g. Wales, Peak, Scotland.
I'm 33, there's a good number a similar age plus more experienced members. Id say that most meets the grades climbed are about VS but there's a few in the club who lead harder, and a good number that could second harder if thats what you're leading.
If you pop along on a Wednesday night you'll bump into us. EVMC website or Facebook page has photos of recent meets if you want more of a feel.